Problematic asshole

Please go away, everything here will only hurt you.

None of you know me. Because not single one of you has ever made any sort of attempt to get to know me in any sort of way, in relation to anything whatsoever, be that happy or sad, serious or goofy, legit or perceived. Not one of you made any effort ever. I’ve been nice so many fucking times I’ve lost count - I made comments, I replied to stuff, I messaged people when I noticed they were feeling down, I gave tips when I could, I liveblogged stuff for those occupied to see it (only ever gotten told off for that too, not even once thanked). And guess what, I think I could count on one hand how many times someone actually reacted to it. The rest - not even as much as to tell me to fuck off.

And now you talk to me about sympathy. Now you call me names. Now you tell me I have issues. Now you expect me to be considerate of you and your histories. What the fuck gives you the right??? You keep ignoring someone when it’s evident they have problems, because… because gods even know why (because they’re problematic?), and you consider yourself welcoming and sympathetic and whatever? And it’s all for posting stuff on their blog (“it’s your blog, post what you want”), that’s not even tagged for anything possibly tracked? (Even that rant only tagged with my own personal tag for my own personal opinions so that people who aren’t interested in that can fucking have it on blacklist and not show up on their fucking dash, like I have been doing for quite some time.)

Fuck you. Fuck you and your shallow conditional community. And yeah, fuck me for not being a fucking rape victim (has anyone else not being one actually gotten to the point where they wished they would be?). You know where the unfollow button is, I found it on all your blogs.

hokuto-ju-no-ken:

yoshi-p:

discipleofmenphina:

On a general note though, while at it…

Dear tumblr, please grow a fucking backbone. Yes, there are evil things (in the plural, as in, more than one) in the world; yes, it’s very tragic if you ended up being involved in any of them; no, nobody’s blaming you for it; yes, nobody thinks they’re right; yes, discussing certain topics might be uncomfortable / a trigger for some of you.

However, I’m just sick and tired of so many wanting to treat these subjects as absolute taboos, like nobody should even be allowed to utter their names in any sort of context, at all, ever. It’s not gonna cause anyone’s death, it’s not gonna bring about the end of the world, and most importantly - nobody’s relating it to your (or anyone’s) personal story. It’s speaking in general. I refuse to shrink my vocabulary because writing down words might offend someone - not sorry, that’s just nonsense. Grow out of this victim complex already.

And if I, or anyone else, is making things personal, calling out your, or anyone else’s name specifically - yes, then you can and should be offended and take the necessary steps.

Thank you.

hi heres my 2gil

you are problematic, I am unfollowing you please stop comparing a simple in game store to buy vanity items with a fake currency as problematic as people getting raped and sexually harrassed to the point where they are scarred and cannot handle even hearing the word rape as some live in denial or some like myself get really angry and upset and do not want to deal with this.

I am a rape victim and I am recovering from the extremely traumatic experience and would like to be on tumblr and involved in a community centered around quite a wonderful game without people doing dumb shit like you just did. I would have been fine if you had been discussing implied rape in the game but you compared it to paying for things with fake currency.

please unfollow me as well.

Sorry for reblogging this from you, Yoshi-P, since for some reason asshole’s blog doesn’t load for me so I’m sorry you gotta see this.

Hi, rape survivor with a strong as fuck backbone here.

Shut the fuck up. Just do everyone in the god damned FFXIV tumblr community a favor and shut the fuck up for once. You obviously upset some folks

and now you’re telling everyone to grow a spine? and on top of that you CONTINUE to go “well, it’s the internet huhbluhbluhbluh lol suicide mention!”

so yeah I’m finally just going to say what I wanna say every damn time I see one of your whiny ass posts in the damned tag or on my dash somehow

Shut the fuck up

Tumblr has an ignore feature for people/blogs you hate with such a passion. Please use it, then you don’t have to see anyone’s whiny ass posts in any damned tag. ^^

Some folks upset me too, y’know. So what? I just block them. Good for y’all to have your circle of friends to come as an army to band up on others who are alone, though.

XKit 7 - The Browser Extension for Tumblr

Please feel free to use it. Includes the available extension Blacklist:

This extension allows you to block posts based on the words you specify. If a post has the text you’ve written in the post itself or it’s tags, it will be replaced by a warning, or won’t be shown on your dashboard, depending on your settings.

What if I went to people to complain about pictures of couples and ask them not to post any such because they remind me of certain things from my past which make me very depressed to the point of considering ending my own life? Because it happens, on like a daily basis. Still doubt anyone would give a fuck.

It’s funny how I can make a dozen posts about whatever and nobody even notices, but when I dare use a fucking word that shouldn’t even exist - whoa, nuclear explosion.

Why should I care about you and your problems when you don’t give two shits about me and my issues, to begin with?

hostsamurai:

indister:

discipleofmenphina:

On a general note though, while at it…

Dear tumblr, please grow a fucking backbone. Yes, there are evil things (in the plural, as in, more than one) in the world; yes, it’s very tragic if you ended up being involved in any of them; no, nobody’s blaming you for it; yes, nobody thinks they’re right; yes, discussing certain topics might be uncomfortable / a trigger for some of you.

However, I’m just sick and tired of so many wanting to treat these subjects as absolute taboos, like nobody should even be allowed to utter their names in any sort of context, at all, ever. It’s not gonna cause anyone’s death, it’s not gonna bring about the end of the world, and most importantly - nobody’s relating it to your (or anyone’s) personal story. It’s speaking in general. I refuse to shrink my vocabulary because writing down words might offend someone - not sorry, that’s just nonsense. Grow out of this victim complex already.

And if I, or anyone else, is making things personal, calling out your, or anyone else’s name specifically - yes, then you can and should be offended and take the necessary steps.

Thank you.

You literally compared a cash shop to something awful because you were kicking and screaming in your crib over it, and then you have the audacity to say grow a back bone and call victim complex? No, you grow up and understand what the issue is here. The fact that you find it an appropriate comparison demonstrates that you do not understand the severity of the issue. 

 It’s not gonna cause anyone’s death”

But it actually does? Like, you see it all the time on here; people commit suicide from anon hate. They’re called “triggers” for a reason. By casually throwing around these words it not only causes people who have been involved in that type of situation to remember the horrible details they went through, but it also causes them emotional pain. Which can then lead to that person’s death because it’s a terrible thing to be reminded of.

lmao sorry but the only one who needs to grow the fuck up and get off their high horse is op

Thank you

Like I said: it’s the internet. Nobody’s gonna start censoring words because it might hurt someone somewhere. That said, you’ll see it in newspapers/magazines, you’ll see it in movies, you’ll see it on the news, you’ll hear about it in music. Sad thing, yes, but that’s reality. If someone’s so damn sensitive, take the necessary precautions. Several tools are available for browsers to hide things one doesn’t want to see - start using them and stop relying on everyone else to “behave themselves” because of you. I know it’s “reasonable” in the US to sue the manufacturer of a microwave oven if your kid blows the cat up in one of their products because nothing in the description of it said you shouldn’t put a cat in it - trust me, in every other part of the world it’s called common sense. 

And again, not sorry, but until the “rapeisterrible-thispersonisavictim-helpthesurvivors” type posts won’t disappear (and they won’t, because they’re ok, right, despite containing the same words), kicking and screaming to wipe any other type of stuff that contains it is just fucking double standards. Everyone wants to end discrimination - until it somehow favours them, because then it’s alright… thanks, but no.

indister:

discipleofmenphina:

On a general note though, while at it…

Dear tumblr, please grow a fucking backbone. Yes, there are evil things (in the plural, as in, more than one) in the world; yes, it’s very tragic if you ended up being involved in any of them; no, nobody’s blaming you for it; yes, nobody thinks they’re right; yes, discussing certain topics might be uncomfortable / a trigger for some of you.

However, I’m just sick and tired of so many wanting to treat these subjects as absolute taboos, like nobody should even be allowed to utter their names in any sort of context, at all, ever. It’s not gonna cause anyone’s death, it’s not gonna bring about the end of the world, and most importantly - nobody’s relating it to your (or anyone’s) personal story. It’s speaking in general. I refuse to shrink my vocabulary because writing down words might offend someone - not sorry, that’s just nonsense. Grow out of this victim complex already.

And if I, or anyone else, is making things personal, calling out your, or anyone else’s name specifically - yes, then you can and should be offended and take the necessary steps.

Thank you.

You literally compared a cash shop to something awful because you were kicking and screaming in your crib over it, and then you have the audacity to say grow a back bone and call victim complex? No, you grow up and understand what the issue is here. The fact that you find it an appropriate comparison demonstrates that you do not understand the severity of the issue. 

Dude, why the fuck are you taking everything out of context and so damn personally??? Why does “understanding the severity of the issue” mean never even mentioning it any other way than “it’s wrong” and “perpetrators need to be punished” and “it’s never the victim’s fault”???

JFC. Context. Abstraction. Generalisation. Learn them please and get a shield - it’s the internet, you’ll see things like this everywhere and if you’re that offended by this, you’re gonna end up slicing your wrists over everything else (oops no another issue I don’t take seriously!)…

On a general note though, while at it…

Dear tumblr, please grow a fucking backbone. Yes, there are evil things (in the plural, as in, more than one) in the world; yes, it’s very tragic if you ended up being involved in any of them; no, nobody’s blaming you for it; yes, nobody thinks they’re right; yes, discussing certain topics might be uncomfortable / a trigger for some of you.

However, I’m just sick and tired of so many wanting to treat these subjects as absolute taboos, like nobody should even be allowed to utter their names in any sort of context, at all, ever. It’s not gonna cause anyone’s death, it’s not gonna bring about the end of the world, and most importantly - nobody’s relating it to your (or anyone’s) personal story. It’s speaking in general. I refuse to shrink my vocabulary because writing down words might offend someone - not sorry, that’s just nonsense. Grow out of this victim complex already.

And if I, or anyone else, is making things personal, calling out your, or anyone else’s name specifically - yes, then you can and should be offended and take the necessary steps.

Thank you.

indister replied to your post
please don’t compare that to rape that is vile and i’m kinda offended rn
Well, and I’m offended by what SE is doing (~feels like we’re being raped for our money). I don’t condone either of those.

JFC Tumblr Android is such a mess, keeps losing my main blog, it just doesn’t show up in the list - and thanks to that (I think), I can’t refresh my activities. Neither do i get notifications.